Our family therapist commented that everything in our life seems to revolve around Ben. Everything we do is to try and manage, accommodate or react to him. Katy is burnt out, I’m heading that way. An insidious example of this is sleep. No matter how tired I am, my body wakes me up at 5am, to make sure Ben doesn’t sleep through his alarm. I can’t make myself not do this. And I hate that it happens.